I know this is random but just wondering if anyone else feels this way. My parents gave me a lovely name, but I have always gone by my middle name, my entire 63 years I have been here. I traveled under that name, work and still do work, filed my taxes - still do, got a mortgage, car loans, insurance with only my middle and last name. Then 911 happened and everyone must use your legal name, or as they say your first name. When you board the cruise ship everyone is so friendly and addresses you with the name on the reservation. It can be quite funny sometimes, since my first name is "Merre" it is pronounced like Merry, it was a family name and it was my beautiful grandmother's name. But the nice room stewards and waiters usually say, "Hello Ms Merrrrr". so not their fault for the pronunciation. I understand that I can legally change my name and I know some people have done that, but it is expensive. I just wish they had a place one the reservation for preferred "Nickname" or something. I feel like I lost a little bit of the freedom we are supposed to have in America.