Help, I am second guessing my Dress!!!

OK, I seriously need some opinions here, I am torn between 2 dresses, I love the tulle bottom, but I am worried it looks a bit young (I am not a 1st time bride) My only criteria is a tea length or shorter dress and its has to be bright white because I am dismal in ivory. This is for a beach wedding in St Thomas. Let me know what you think, Thanks, Dolly:)

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I LOVE it! I think it's great!

I love the first one with the flowery skirt, but they're both very pretty! I'm sure you'd look great in either. Follow your gut!

They are both gorgeous! It doesn't matter if you are in your 20's, 30's or 80's...wear what you love and you will look beautiful! ;)

Both are gorgeous, but I would prefer the first because I think it's a little more sophisticated. However, I'm not the bride- you are- so don't worry about "age" - just go with whichever makes you feel happiest when you put it on (maybe ask a trusted friend to see you model both for her).

They are both beautiful....the 1st is my choice.

If I remember correctly, u already got the 2nd dress? I like it, its adorable. I think its beautiful for a beach wedding and u will look great in it...

I do really love the first one tho! Its so fun!!! I want it too! Haha!

How do they look on you? From my experience something can look great in a picture or on the rack, but it's a completely different experience when you've tried them on. How do you feel when you have them on? They both look great, though I think I prefer the first one. The second one looks very ballerina.

Agree with Artemis.First even looks Tropical.

I love the second one more. Although the first is very pretty too! I actually think that the first looks "younger" than the second.

Also... may I ask, where did you find these dresses? :D

I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE #1....the 2nd one is pretty, too, but looks like more of an "inside" dress. Go with #1...it's not "too young"..it's just right!

I'd vote for the first one. Very pretty.

I like the second one. LOVE the corset top. Well, I guess they're both corset tops but the second looks like it from the front too. I find the swirls on the bottom of the first one to be kinda weird looking, personally.

I find the swirls on the bottom of the first one to be kinda weird looking, personally.

With a name like JulieRose, I would think you'd have noticed the bottom of the first dress is flowers :)!

with all the opinions you are getting I guess you are still stuck.

my 2 cents... I like the halter better than the strapless. Strapless to me reads younger, and also can be uncomfortable to keep lifting it up (I have yet to see a strapless dress so flawless it stays up all day/night without a pull and tug here and there) I also agree with lovepea that the first one looks younger.

With all that said tho... a bridal dress is something you have to love and for the most part are ageless in style go with the one you like best on you.

With a name like JulieRose, I would think you'd have noticed the bottom of the first dress is flowers :)!

yep... I noticed. Still think it's weird looking. I can't help what my hippie parents named me ;).

They're both beautiful dresses, I can see why your torn. I would go with the first one. The first dress is more sophisticated looking. The second dress is beautiful, but, I think you'd look more like a ballerina than a bride.

They're both beautiful dresses, I can see why your torn. I would go with the first one. The first dress is more sophisticated looking. The second dress is beautiful, but, I think you'd look more like a ballerina than a bride.

I have to agree; it looks a bit like my DD's ballet recital costume this year. That said, OP, only you know what looks best on you!

I'm sure that you could have either spaghetti straps or halter ties added to the first dress.

LOL I seriously had to laugh at the ballet tutu comment, I actually took ballet for 18 years, maybe thats the appeal for me, thank you tendenitis for killing my dream career LOL, I think I am actually going to order the first one too, neither are expensive the first came from eastbridal.com and the second came from idresslove.com I just refuse to pay a fortune for a dress that will only be worn for a few hours, but I still want it to look great. Yeah I have unrealistic expectations, but thats just me. Thanks for the help everyone, it really is appreciated:)

LOL I seriously had to laugh at the ballet tutu comment, I actually took ballet for 18 years, maybe thats the appeal for me, thank you tendenitis for killing my dream career LOL, I think I am actually going to order the first one too, neither are expensive the first came from eastbridal.com and the second came from idresslove.com I just refuse to pay a fortune for a dress that will only be worn for a few hours, but I still want it to look great. Yeah I have unrealistic expectations, but thats just me. Thanks for the help everyone, it really is appreciated:)

Just a thought.... What's the return policy at those sites? If they have good return policies, maybe u could get them both, try them on and return the one u don't like? I do believe that dresses look different on the hanger than on us... I hated my dress on the hanger, but once it was on me, it was IT.... again, don't know if that's even possible, but just a thought :-)

Just a thought.... What's the return policy at those sites? If they have good return policies, maybe u could get them both, try them on and return the one u don't like? I do believe that dresses look different on the hanger than on us... I hated my dress on the hanger, but once it was on me, it was IT.... again, don't know if that's even possible, but just a thought :-)

Thats true, but I think once you pay for the shipping and customs charges your probably better off keeping it. I really want to do trash the dress pics so whatever I don't wear for the wedding I will use for the pictures. I do love these websites though, because I am thrifty to the core LOL!!!:)

Just curious whch dress you ended up picking out?!

Pinkdiamonddolly : i like the 1st one more, where did you find these they are gorgeous

Hi Bellademiami, Thank You, the first came from eastbridal.com and the second came from idresslove.com.:)