I completely stressed before our first trip to Rome, and I now wish I hadn't. I read tons of articles and read lots of reviews so I thought I had it down. Well after telling my hubby he could not wear shorts and tees and not baseball hat, and thats pretty much all he wears. Low and behold everywhere we went that's what we saw. So on my next trip I will not focus so much, yes I will cover up in the churches and yes I will probley still be on the more conservative side, but I wont not be myself. I realized I did so much to look like a local we probley stood out lol.