I celebrated my 60th birthday on the Equinox last year. I told the head waiter my birth date. The waiters sang Happy Birthday and I was given a small chocolate cake. It wasn't very good. It was dry and lacked flavor. My travel agent, on the other hand, had champagne and strawberries delivered to my stateroom. You have to create your own memories for your special occasion and not be disappointed if the cruiseline does not meet your expectations.