I agree that the way to go is to get inside rooms that connect...or at very least two inside rooms and you each sleep in one with the kids split up. It's much less expensive to get connecting inside rooms than any sort of family room or suite. If you sail on RC, they have Promenade staterooms that have a large window that overlooks the Promenade where all of the shops are located. That's a nice room to get if you can't afford connecting balcony rooms because you still get a view of the "outside" world if your baby is napping, but they are less expensive than a balcony or family room. Good luck and have fun!