CABO: Whale Watching With Food & Booze???

We're going to Cabo in the heart of whale watching season. Most of the tours appear to be on smaller boats, with benches and no bathrooms. We're going with kids, and 2 hours on a boat like that would be torture for everyone involved. We're looking to charter a boat with food, drinks, music, maybe a stop somewhere along the way..... found lots of that..... but almost all operators I've talked to say they "don't get too close to the whales for their safety" They seem mo

I would also look on the Cabo forum board on TripAdvisor (parent company of CruiseCritic). It is located here: https://www.tripadvisor.com/ShowForum-g152515-i84-Cabo_San_Lucas_Los_Cabos_Baja_California.html You can do a simple search of the forum or join for free and ask more specific questions. Other resources for whale watching. https://www.tripadvisor.com/Attractions-g152515-Activities-c61-t167-Cabo_San_Lucas_Los_Cabos_Baja_California.html