Thanks, these are great suggestions...I didn't consider dinner, because I assume most would rather eat on their own time. I also, considered trying to find a place on the ship and having drinks together before dinner and discussing what everyone is doing for the evening like Karaoke, etc. but late nights will not work with the ones with young ones who go to bed early....so I was trying think of something to do during the day, too...Maybe a mini golf tourney, bumper cars ? If they have them on the ship we pick.
As of now we will not be getting family shirts....but who knows...maybe we will, if everyone wants too.