> We did meet a couple on our last cruise by going to the meetup.
> Wish we had met more.
I have met some very nice people on cruises, and even a hookup or two (hehehehe) My best experience was just about a year ago when I was on a cruise and went to the meetup. There were about a dozen guys there and we all had fun and got to know each other. We all hung out together during the cruise and ran around like a pack of teenagers! hehehe Most of the guys I am still friends with and keep in touch online. And many I have cruised with again since then!
> What sort of conversations do you have with newbies?
I like to put them at ease and not make them feel pressured. They are usually nervous enough as it is. So I talk to them and ask them about their experience, their interest, the curiosities. And strike up conversations around that. And most of all LISTEN to their questions and give caring and sincere answers. I remember when I was young and learning about being gay and WISHED I had someone to talk to like me. So I enjoy being that person, as well as helping them to experience new things ins a safe and caring manner.