We shower in the morning and then in the evening, tidying up the room as we go. I suppose it is my military upbringing that my father instilled on me. Having said that, he would put his shoes outside his cabin door expecting them to be polished.
I have never had my bed turned down, so don't understand why this is a "thing". It doesn't take much to pull your own sheet down and get into bed. Unless I am misunderstanding what makes up turn down.