That's a good question! On Norwegian, Celebrity and MSC (which I forgot to mention in my original post!), I love their "private" area (Haven, Retreat, Yacht Club). I get overwhelmed in crowds so I've found these areas to be perfect and relaxing for me, although pricey. I think Westerdam being a smaller ship (under 2,000 passengers I believe), I would be okay! I have never cruised "solo", but since losing my husband a year ago, this is becoming my reality.
I'm not sure how dining would work, but I have no problem sharing a table - in fact, I prefer that to eating alone. Do they assign dining times? I am used to dining on my own time schedule.
Thank you for any information! 😊