Response from my TA.
Well, as I always point out, one person's experience may or may not be true, especially given who they actually talked to. Case in point; right now, when you call the cruise line, you're more than likely talking to someone who's only worked for the cruise line for a couple of months. Plus, you could very well be talking to someone who's in a foreign country. It was pointed out by CLIA (Cruise Lines International Assoc) that we all belong to, that when you call the cruise lines: 1) you're talking to someone who is not a certified travel agent; 2) you're talking to someone who has only worked there less than 6 months; and 3) has never even been on a cruise or to any of the ports. They're just there to take your order. Often times, when you ask a question, you'll get a wrong answer, because they don't want to spend the time putting you on hold, while they call a supervisor. The average lifespan of a reservationist is less than 6 months across the industry. And due to the pandemic, cruise lines are having an extremely difficult time filling the vacancies. Hold times have very often exceeded 1 to 2 hours! There are days that we're on hold for half the day with various cruise lines when we can't get answers. Luckily for us, being one of the biggest agencies in the business, we often have special numbers not available to other agencies, but even with that our hold times can be very long.
In other words, when you call the cruise line and you get an answer you don't like, hang up and call back - you may get a different answer from the next person.
With this individual, I'm willing to bet that was the case. I've been doing this for 20 years (just celebrated our 20th anniversary a couple of weeks ago!) and we have over 3500 clients around the world. I've never heard of anyone not being allowed to stay off the ship. As I mentioned, we've had clients that got off the ship in one port and gotten back on the ship the next day in another port. We've also had clients disembark ships before the cruise ends. They just went up to customer service the night before, settled up their account, and carried their luggage off the ship. Think of it this way; if you get off the ship one day and don't come back on board until the next day, what are they going to do about it? Obviously, it's always good to let them know, but there's no requirement to do that - just common sense in case of an emergency. The only thing that may impact that decision would be a restriction in the port itself, not the ship, which could very well have been the case in Hawaii, given their restrictions during Covid, which were more restrictive than other places. I would be willing to bet it wasn't HAL that had the problem. There were people on our NCL Hawiian cruise that spent the night off the ship in a couple of ports. Then again, that was a few years before Covid and it was NCL, not HAL.
In your situation, as long as the resort says there are no restrictions in Bora Bora, I would believe you won't have any problems and I don't see HAL forbidding you from doing it. We'll see if we can get a more definitive answer from someone in charge, but so far, as you've seen, none of the 3 people that I've gotten responses from have any problems with it.
But one person's experience with a reservationist is definitely not something I would hang my hat on, that's for sure!!
Pete & Nancy Peterson