pnhmrk Posted May 31, 2008 #101 Share Posted May 31, 2008 I have a feeling though, that Captain McNaught wouldn't mind in the least being addressed by his first name by a friend. And I have a feeling it would depend on when and where. As the Captain isn't here (and is not likely to read this) we'll just have to let those feelings remain feelings. I expect Gav thought he was among friends here. It strikes me as incredibly naive to think that everyone who looks at this message board is a friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GAV BOY Posted May 31, 2008 Author #102 Share Posted May 31, 2008 Gavin - you don't. I couldn't say what you do when actually onboard - we've only been onboard for the one trip at the same time. However you have Called McN Ian in this forum. This forum is open to anyone and a statement made here is totally public and will be read by many people who one will never meet. Surely the written word is different to the spoken word ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GAV BOY Posted May 31, 2008 Author #103 Share Posted May 31, 2008 And I have a feeling it would depend on when and where. As the Captain isn't here (and is not likely to read this) we'll just have to let those feelings remain feelings. It strikes me as incredibly naive to think that everyone who looks at this message board is a friend. Actually Malcolm both Mrs and Captain McNaught read this thread !!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GAV BOY Posted May 31, 2008 Author #104 Share Posted May 31, 2008 I have a feeling though, that Captain McNaught wouldn't mind in the least being addressed by his first name by a friend. There are others who wouldn't tolerate it for a moment. I think the standard etiquette - I believe it's the same in the "other" Navy? - is to use the title in all but the most informal of situations. But again, each captain is different. And I expect Gav thought he was among friends here, and meant no disrespect at all. Thank you , yes i have made some good friends here ! :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pnhmrk Posted May 31, 2008 #105 Share Posted May 31, 2008 Surely the written word is different to the spoken word ? Very, in two ways. You can include all sorts of inflections in the spoken word to convey how something is understood - doing that in the written word is almost impossible and, for the most part, you know who you are speaking to; on a forum you are addressing everybody who cares to look. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pnhmrk Posted May 31, 2008 #106 Share Posted May 31, 2008 Actually Malcolm both Mrs and Captain McNaught read this thread !!! I'd heard otherwise about Capt McNaught. That just goes to prove that you can't know everybody who does or doesn't read the written word. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GAV BOY Posted May 31, 2008 Author #107 Share Posted May 31, 2008 I'd heard otherwise about Capt McNaught. That just goes to prove that you can't know everybody who does or doesn't read the written word. There you go ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nitwit Posted May 31, 2008 #108 Share Posted May 31, 2008 Actually Malcolm both Mrs and Captain McNaught read this thread !!! Captain McNaught doesn't read this site. Glenn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pnhmrk Posted June 1, 2008 #109 Share Posted June 1, 2008 There you go ! What do you mean by "There you go"? I have just proven that you cannot class everyone on the site as a friend if you don't know who's reading it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Anorak33 Posted June 1, 2008 #110 Share Posted June 1, 2008 CC Member IDLNYC posted a link on a roll call to the Winter 2008 Cabin Cavalcade which has a shot near the end of the Captain's living quarters, and shows Captain McNaught being very friendly to CC members. Also shows popular day dress on QE2 is somewhat more casual than has been posted on here as desirable. Thanks for the link and the movie IDLNYC Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nitwit Posted June 1, 2008 #111 Share Posted June 1, 2008 CC Member IDLNYC posted a link on a roll call to the Winter 2008 Cabin Cavalcade which has a shot near the end of the Captain's living quarters, and shows Captain McNaught being very friendly to CC members. Maybe, but he still doesn't read this thread. Glenn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GAV BOY Posted June 1, 2008 Author #112 Share Posted June 1, 2008 CC Member IDLNYC posted a link on a roll call to the Winter 2008 Cabin Cavalcade Thanks for the link and the movie IDLNYC Thanks to IDLNYC Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GAV BOY Posted June 1, 2008 Author #113 Share Posted June 1, 2008 CC Member IDLNYC posted a link on a roll call to the Winter 2008 Cabin Cavalcade Thanks for the link and the movie IDLNYC Hi Anorak33, Thanks for that and for reminding us what this thread is all about :D As you say Captain McNaught is very friendly to C C members :) Gav :cool: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coolgran Posted June 1, 2008 #114 Share Posted June 1, 2008 Have got to join in this debate. Sue) she said 'call me Sue' DOES read the boards. Gav is actually a great guy and quite reticent in person. The 'icon' is as he says 'tongue in cheek' and he has great respect for the whole McNaught family. Yours in friendship Coolgran Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nitwit Posted June 1, 2008 #115 Share Posted June 1, 2008 Have got to join in this debate. Sue) she said 'call me Sue' DOES read the boards. Gav is actually a great guy and quite reticent in person. The 'icon'is as he says 'tongue in cheek' and he has great respect for the whole McNaught family. Yours in friendship Coolgran Yes she does read the boards, she told me. She also told me the Captain refuses to. Glenn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coolgran Posted June 1, 2008 #116 Share Posted June 1, 2008 Yes she does read the boards, she told me. She also told me the Captain refuses to.Glenn. I am sure Sue then tells him anything which she considers might interest him. Leaving him free for other duties. I am sure this debate can go nowhere without their input, without which nobody knows for sure what they think. Coolgran Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NomDePlume Posted June 1, 2008 #117 Share Posted June 1, 2008 And since I'm sure no one would want to put them on the spot for something so trivial as this, could we now let this thread die a quiet death? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GAV BOY Posted June 1, 2008 Author #118 Share Posted June 1, 2008 Have got to join in this debate. Sue) she said 'call me Sue' DOES read the boards. Gav is actually a great guy and quite reticent in person. The 'icon'is as he says 'tongue in cheek' and he has great respect for the whole McNaught family. Yours in friendship Coolgran Hi Coolgran, Thank you for your Input and your kind words, its a pity that what was meant to be a nice thread has been spoilt. Everything you have said makes a lot of sense and bears a lot of truth. Gavin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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