Carol - I am sorry you had to experience this! And I have absolutely no reason to doubt, question, or explain away anything you have shared with us. My very first thought while reading was...."And this is the type of experience that we're expected to pay extremely high and constantly increasing prices/fares for?" Now there will be some who will most likely say, "why didn't you call the manager over immediately and say something?" And my thought would be, "Why should you have to do that in the first place? Why should the responsibility for calling attention to sub-standard service and quality control on a luxury cruise line fall to being the customer's responsibility?" Best Regards.