shepp Posted December 6, 2010 #1 Share Posted December 6, 2010 http://miamiherald.*****.com/gaysouthflorida/2010/12/jamaican-gay-activist-found-stabbed-to-death-reports-j-flag-jamaica-forum-for-lesbians-all-sexuals-gays.html Horrific. And part of an overwhelming pattern. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Schplinky Posted December 6, 2010 #2 Share Posted December 6, 2010 That is sad. I will never get off a ship that docks there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
massolteron Posted December 6, 2010 #3 Share Posted December 6, 2010 Been there once, never again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MiamiSpartan Posted December 7, 2010 #4 Share Posted December 7, 2010 yeah...I probably wouldn't get off the ship again if we ever dock there.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BadSeaLegs Posted December 7, 2010 #5 Share Posted December 7, 2010 I'll do one better. I won't even book a cruise with a ship that even has that as one of its ports. Maybe when they lose the "gay dollar" they will wake up and smell the Rastafarian! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ikelmay Posted December 7, 2010 #6 Share Posted December 7, 2010 +1 I don't even consider itineraries that route through any jamaican port of call. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Northshorecruisers Posted December 8, 2010 #7 Share Posted December 8, 2010 We sailed there once, before I knew they were "not-friendly". I wasn't overly impressed. Since finding out they are homophobic - I will never again book a cruise going there. Their attitude towards GLBT is not something I will support. As another poster mentioned, they will loose the Gay$$$$ - and the $$$$ from us parents, and other relatives & friends of someone who is gay. No ones life should be at risk due to their orientation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chelseaguy Posted December 8, 2010 #8 Share Posted December 8, 2010 We also would not take any cruise that had a Jamaican port of call. Absolutely not! Rather stay home--and may other places ot visit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
High Seas Texan Posted December 9, 2010 #9 Share Posted December 9, 2010 Maybe I am just lucky, but I have nothing but positive experiences in Jamaica. It is a beautiful country, and I find the people to be very outgoing and friendly. I am frequently on the Carnival Conquest, which stops in Montego Bay. I look forward to going back each time. The locals I have met and dealt with are always professional, friendly and respectful. I find the same from the JAmaican workers I encouter in stateside ports. I will keep my guard up in the future, but there are two sides to every story. I would like to know more about the circumstances of the negative treatment of gays and lesbians. I do not flaunt my lifestyle, but it is really no secret either. I will post more after my next visit this week. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrusingJoe Posted December 10, 2010 #10 Share Posted December 10, 2010 Maybe I am just lucky, but I have nothing but positive experiences in Jamaica. It is a beautiful country, and I find the people to be very outgoing and friendly. I am frequently on the Carnival Conquest, which stops in Montego Bay. I look forward to going back each time. The locals I have met and dealt with are always professional, friendly and respectful. I find the same from the JAmaican workers I encouter in stateside ports. I will keep my guard up in the future, but there are two sides to every story. I would like to know more about the circumstances of the negative treatment of gays and lesbians. I do not flaunt my lifestyle, but it is really no secret either. I will post more after my next visit this week. Plese do post your review, as we have been there a few times and never had a problem other than the street people following you and asking for $$$. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
High Seas Texan Posted December 10, 2010 #11 Share Posted December 10, 2010 No Prblem CruisingJoe. You will not hear another peep from me regarding this subject. Please return the favor. Hopefully we will never have to share a ship together. That way you will not be offended by opinions other than you own. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
satxdiver Posted December 11, 2010 #12 Share Posted December 11, 2010 I was on a ship that stopped at MoBay a couple of years ago. I chose not to get off the ship. I have stayed on the ship at other ports where I had been many times before and just wanted to relax on the ship. When the ship is in port it is like a ghost town with no chair hoarders, no lines at the buffet, no lines at the gym, etc. A real pleasure and very relaxing. I expected the same while at MoBay. I was wrong though. It almost looked like a sea day with all the pax that stayed on board. We had the chair hoarders by the pool, lines at the buffet, etc. Pax voted with their feet. I will be on a ship that will stop there in 2012. I wanted the itinerary but had to take Jamaica as part of it. I will stay on the ship again but this time I will be more expecting of my fellow pax doing the same. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ikelmay Posted December 11, 2010 #13 Share Posted December 11, 2010 No Prblem CruisingJoe. You will not hear another peep from me regarding this subject. Please return the favor. Hopefully we will never have to share a ship together. That way you will not be offended by opinions other than you own. ????? Has something been edited or am I missing something here? Maybe I'm incredibly dim this evening but I thought crusingJoe was actually in agreement with you........... ? If not it's a piece of sarcasm that went way over my head!! Maybe I'm reading things wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
commodoredave Posted December 11, 2010 #14 Share Posted December 11, 2010 We used to cruise to and vacation on land in Jamaica back in the 1980s. Had many wonderful visits in MoBay, Negril, and Ocho Rios. The food, people and surroundings were great. Things began to change for the worse in the 1990s -- people harrassing us, trying to sell us drugs, following us around, and being threatening. We then searched out and found other places in the Caribbean we enjoyed more and stopped going to Jamaica. It's very sad, but we do not find Jamaica worth visiting any longer -- by ship or otherwise. Truly wish it was not so. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
commodoredave Posted December 11, 2010 #15 Share Posted December 11, 2010 ????? Has something been edited or am I missing something here? Maybe I'm incredibly dim this evening but I thought crusingJoe was actually in agreement with you........... ? If not it's a piece of sarcasm that went way over my head!! Maybe I'm reading things wrong. Glad you mentioned it because I was puzzled too!! Maybe some one can enlighten we dimwits!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VegasCrossfire Posted December 11, 2010 #16 Share Posted December 11, 2010 Glad you mentioned it because I was puzzled too!! Maybe some one can enlighten we dimwits!! Whew!! I thought I was the only one!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrusingJoe Posted December 11, 2010 #17 Share Posted December 11, 2010 ????? Has something been edited or am I missing something here? Maybe I'm incredibly dim this evening but I thought crusingJoe was actually in agreement with you........... ? If not it's a piece of sarcasm that went way over my head!! Maybe I'm reading things wrong. Thanks for the support, nothing was edited or missing. I am just looking for his review on his next cruise. I'm in agreement and hope he stays in Texes. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
High Seas Texan Posted December 11, 2010 #18 Share Posted December 11, 2010 Cruisingjoe: Please forgive me. I re-read your post. When I wrote my response I thought you had written please do NOT post a review. My mistake. I was wrong, and when I am, I admit it. So sorry. I cannot take back what has already occurred, but I can admit a mistake. I doubt we will ever meet in person, but if we should, I will apologize to your face. Again, I was wrong and I am sorry. Cordially, George, aka HighSeasTexan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flag fan Posted December 12, 2010 #19 Share Posted December 12, 2010 Cruisingjoe: Please forgive me. I re-read your post. When I wrote my response I thought you had written please do NOT post a review. My mistake. I was wrong, and when I am, I admit it. So sorry. I cannot take back what has already occurred, but I can admit a mistake. I doubt we will ever meet in person, but if we should, I will apologize to your face. Again, I was wrong and I am sorry.Cordially, George, aka HighSeasTexan To tell you the truth, for some reason I mis-read the original post the same way you did, I'm not sure why. I reread it after someone questioned your response; I've got to stop the speed reading. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrusingJoe Posted December 12, 2010 #20 Share Posted December 12, 2010 Cruisingjoe: Please forgive me. I re-read your post. When I wrote my response I thought you had written please do NOT post a review. My mistake. I was wrong, and when I am, I admit it. So sorry. I cannot take back what has already occurred, but I can admit a mistake. I doubt we will ever meet in person, but if we should, I will apologize to your face. Again, I was wrong and I am sorry.Cordially, George, aka HighSeasTexan Yes I forgive you, no need to apologize. Should we meet at high seas you can bur me a drink. We have 4 upcomming cruises should you be one one of the. (See my Signature) Regards, Joe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jame_g Posted December 12, 2010 #21 Share Posted December 12, 2010 That is sad. I will never get off a ship that docks there. We won't book another cruise on a ship that stops in Jamaica. They still get a fee for every passenger on board the ship when it docks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
apollobeach Posted December 13, 2010 #22 Share Posted December 13, 2010 We do not book any cruises which stop in Jamaica. There are so many places which appreciate our money. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shepp Posted December 14, 2010 Author #23 Share Posted December 14, 2010 Maybe I am just lucky, but I have nothing but positive experiences in Jamaica. It is a beautiful country, and I find the people to be very outgoing and friendly. I will keep my guard up in the future, but there are two sides to every story. I would like to know more about the circumstances of the negative treatment of gays and lesbians. I do not flaunt my lifestyle, but it is really no secret either. Listen, I spent the day in Ocho Rios on a cruise my mother booked, and had a lovely time there, too...except for a female sex worker near the dock grabbing my crotch with unerring, unwelcome accuracy. Nonetheless, there's a disturbing "they were asking for it" subtext to your post, unless I'm totally reading something into it. Gays and lesbians are being tortured and killed by homophobes, while the power structure just stands by and popular culture celebrates the mini-holocaust. What's to debate? Years ago, Time magazine called Jamaica possibly "the most homophobic place on Earth," and things give little-to-no sign of getting better. If you want to go, that's your choice. But the I find the idea that there are two sides to this particular story repellent. Still, have a lovely, non-flaunting time. Stay safe. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jmraggs Posted December 15, 2010 #24 Share Posted December 15, 2010 Maybe I am just lucky, but I have nothing but positive experiences in Jamaica. It is a beautiful country, and I find the people to be very outgoing and friendly. I am frequently on the Carnival Conquest, which stops in Montego Bay. I look forward to going back each time. The locals I have met and dealt with are always professional, friendly and respectful. I find the same from the JAmaican workers I encouter in stateside ports. I will keep my guard up in the future, but there are two sides to every story. I would like to know more about the circumstances of the negative treatment of gays and lesbians. I do not flaunt my lifestyle, but it is really no secret either. I will post more after my next visit this week. We have never had any issues either. In regards to other posts, whether someone gets off the ship or not, the port is still receiving the port charges and the only way to avoid that is to not book a cruise that stops there. We always get off of the ship and walk around the local port area buying some rum. Last time we stopped at a sidewalk cafe in Ocho Rios and ate some jerk chicken and had a few Red Stripe beers, it was a fantastic time and the person serving us was Jamaican and very cordial. Most stores around the port area appear to be owned and run by Indians not Jamaicans unless you go to a smaller type out of the way place, but the governments still receive some form of tax monies from them. There are some Jamaicans that don't have an issue with our lifestyle, but that's probably the minority there. It would be interesting to see a poll of the country on their views in order to see the actual percentages. Jamaica is pretty bad, but there are many other Caribbean islands with the same homophobic ways. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shepp Posted December 15, 2010 Author #25 Share Posted December 15, 2010 Jamaica is pretty bad, but there are many other Caribbean islands with the same homophobic ways. Beg to differ. While other Caribbean countries are homophobic, the ferocity and frequency of attacks and killings, the lack of an effective official response, and the murderous hatred of dancehall culture do make Jamaica, unfortunately, the worst of the worst. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBT_rights_in_Jamaica Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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