We were in aqua 2 weeks ago and I got the sea pass card holder, I used the yoga mat that was in my room, and I had the champagne, but you had to ask for it. Same with the pillows, I just ask.
I haven't had a tray with apples, pears, or tea in my cabin in years.
Although I didn't care for the canapes, they are gone, as you say. The other couple things don't bother me, but someone else may be bothered.