Anyislandwilldo Posted February 10 #1 Share Posted February 10 I've read that you can contact Carnival about spreading someone's ashes out to sea. Where exactly on the ship does this occur? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mz-s Posted February 10 #2 Share Posted February 10 You can watch some ceremonies online. Usually it's done down where the ship's mooring lines are at the aft. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Knights on the Beach Posted February 10 #3 Share Posted February 10 (edited) We did this with my MIL's ashes several years ago. I reached out to Carnival prior to our cruise and they made it so easy for us. Once onboard the ship, we received a letter in our room that gave us our date and time. An officer met us at guest services and took us down to a lower deck at the back of the ship. There was our group of 16 and another guest who had her father's ashes. The officer gave us ample time and was very respectful. It was so quiet and peaceful there that afternoon and we saw dolphins just as we released the ashes. It was actually very moving. Edited February 10 by Knights on the Beach 16 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nwcruiselover Posted February 11 #4 Share Posted February 11 My sister and I scattered our brother’s ashes off the Carnival Panorama in January 2023. Everything was handled very respectfully, similar to what “Knights on the Beach” described above. A Guest Services representative and a security officer were present, but gave us our time and space. It was very meaningful. The following day my sister and I each received a beautiful padded folder with a picture of the Carnival Panorama inside, along with a certificate signed by the Captain that stated the exact date and time, and latitude/longitude where the ashes were scattered. It couldn’t have been nicer. 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chengkp75 Posted February 11 #5 Share Posted February 11 1 hour ago, mz-s said: You can watch some ceremonies online. Usually it's done down where the ship's mooring lines are at the aft. That would be the stern, as there is no such thing as "the aft". 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mz-s Posted February 11 #6 Share Posted February 11 20 minutes ago, chengkp75 said: That would be the stern, as there is no such thing as "the aft". 🤓 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peggisue Posted February 11 #7 Share Posted February 11 I was considering doing this for my mom as she loved cruising. With going through Carnival, you have to be 12 miles offshore before you can scatter your ashes. My mom couldn't swim and I didn't think that she would like this so we are going with another option. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crusin Karen Posted February 11 #8 Share Posted February 11 2 minutes ago, peggisue said: I was considering doing this for my mom as she loved cruising. With going through Carnival, you have to be 12 miles offshore before you can scatter your ashes. My mom couldn't swim and I didn't think that she would like this so we are going with another option. I love this! 💖💝💓💗💞💕 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nwcruiselover Posted February 11 #9 Share Posted February 11 (edited) The Guest Services staff didn’t tell us how many miles out we had to be, but I assumed 12 miles. They said the bridge staff had to assess the expected winds and sea conditions and would let us know what time the scattering could be done. They offered us a 2 hour window. My sister and I were very happy with the way everything was conducted. Edited February 11 by nwcruiselover 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare Haljo1935 Posted February 11 #10 Share Posted February 11 You contact Carnival in advance and they'll send you an email detailing the requirements. Once onboard, just check in w/GS. You'll get notice onboard of the day/time as @nwcruiselover @Knights on the Beach said. It's done very respectfully as is the package you receive w/the certificate. One note is sea conditions can impact the plans, so flexibility is important. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Purvis1231 Posted February 11 #11 Share Posted February 11 (edited) 11 hours ago, mz-s said: 🤓 aft of a ship is a nautical term to describe a vessel’s rear section or back end. The rear of the ship can also be called the stern, but aft is often the preferred term when discussing larger vessels like cruise ships. Edited February 11 by Purvis1231 typo 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sunkey1 Posted February 11 #12 Share Posted February 11 Is there any additional paperwork that needs to be completed when bringing ashes onboard? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mz-s Posted February 11 #13 Share Posted February 11 15 minutes ago, sunkey1 said: Is there any additional paperwork that needs to be completed when bringing ashes onboard? https://help.carnival.com/app/answers/detail/a_id/1132/~/burial-at-sea---scattering-of-ashes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nwcruiselover Posted February 11 #14 Share Posted February 11 2 hours ago, sunkey1 said: Is there any additional paperwork that needs to be completed when bringing ashes onboard? No one asked me for anything. I had brought my brother’s death certificate and certificate of cremation, but no one asked for it. Same with carrying the urn in my carry-on bag on the plane. TSA did scan it separately but didn’t require any documentation. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Knights on the Beach Posted February 12 #15 Share Posted February 12 7 hours ago, nwcruiselover said: No one asked me for anything. I had brought my brother’s death certificate and certificate of cremation, but no one asked for it. Same with carrying the urn in my carry-on bag on the plane. TSA did scan it separately but didn’t require any documentation. That was our experience as well (minus the plane). 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megan_Strick Posted February 12 #16 Share Posted February 12 On 2/10/2024 at 6:41 PM, Knights on the Beach said: We did this with my MIL's ashes several years ago. I reached out to Carnival prior to our cruise and they made it so easy for us. Once onboard the ship, we received a letter in our room that gave us our date and time. An officer met us at guest services and took us down to a lower deck at the back of the ship. There was our group of 16 and another guest who had her father's ashes. The officer gave us ample time and was very respectful. It was so quiet and peaceful there that afternoon and we saw dolphins just as we released the ashes. It was actually very moving. I have given my kids explicit instructions that I want this done. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sunkey1 Posted February 12 #17 Share Posted February 12 Just now, Megan_Strick said: I have given my kids explicit instructions that I want this done. Yep, told them to book a cruise, drop me off and have a blast. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beaming90 Posted February 12 #18 Share Posted February 12 My mom loved the two cruises she took and one time mentioned having her ashes scattered at sea. I have a beautiful urn. Which I have never looked into. Do they open? If I was to do this, do I carry the urn with me? Or is it better to use a zip lock baggie so as not to be so heavy? I know I sound like a dork, but I am legitimately asking this. Thanks! Lisa 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nwcruiselover Posted February 12 #19 Share Posted February 12 When my sister and I scattered our brother’s remains, we used a biodegradable “scattering tube,” which I found on Amazon. After the remains were put into it, it was securely sealed. There was a small punch-out hole on top, so we were able to punch that out and scatter a portion of the remains into the sea, then throw the rest of the remains and the tube itself into the sea. Carnival made sure the tube was biodegradable before we did it. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maintain242001 Posted February 13 #20 Share Posted February 13 Having done this a few months ago I agree with what's above, they handle it well and we got a book with a signed letter from the captain with the exact spot it was done, unexpected and very nice. We were asked about documents so bring whatever is required and if they want it you have it. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anyislandwilldo Posted February 13 Author #21 Share Posted February 13 Thanks everyone for your "thoughtful" inputs. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pellaz Posted February 13 #22 Share Posted February 13 On 2/10/2024 at 8:44 PM, peggisue said: I was considering doing this for my mom as she loved cruising. With going through Carnival, you have to be 12 miles offshore before you can scatter your ashes. My mom couldn't swim and I didn't think that she would like this so we are going with another option. This would be the case with any cruise line; for environmental reasons it would need to be done at least 12 miles offshore. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mike45LC Posted February 15 #23 Share Posted February 15 I do not know the legality of this but I scattered my mother's remains (after she was done with them) from shore instead of from the ship. I was on a secluded beach that I love, and I waded out to knee-deep water to scatter the ashes. I timed the waves so that the ashes would be carried out instead of carried to shore. There was no paperwork, no Environmental Protection -- just me and the ashes. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sunkey1 Posted February 15 #24 Share Posted February 15 On 2/12/2024 at 6:40 PM, nwcruiselover said: When my sister and I scattered our brother’s remains, we used a biodegradable “scattering tube,” which I found on Amazon. After the remains were put into it, it was securely sealed. There was a small punch-out hole on top, so we were able to punch that out and scatter a portion of the remains into the sea, then throw the rest of the remains and the tube itself into the sea. Carnival made sure the tube was biodegradable before we did it. My father in law was just cremated and they offered a box of sorts which was biodegradable and allowed my husband to place him at the inlet in Ft. Pierce. That "packaging" keeps it simple and saves money on an urn that would otherwise not likely ever be used. I know that's my plan. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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