Rotterdam Posted March 10, 2017 #1 Share Posted March 10, 2017 After reading so many comments about how to dress & pack for evenings I came across this posting from a news article I read....enjoy.. http://www.newyorksocialdiary.com/party-pictures/2017/mcnys-winter-ball You have to love the Europeans ..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Isklaar Posted March 10, 2017 #2 Share Posted March 10, 2017 'Europeans' ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare Lois R Posted March 10, 2017 #3 Share Posted March 10, 2017 After reading so many comments about how to dress & pack for evenings I came across this posting from a news article I read....enjoy.. http://www.newyorksocialdiary.com/party-pictures/2017/mcnys-winter-ball You have to love the Europeans ..... They are dressed in "Black Tie" for a social fundraising event....... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare Silver Spectre Posted March 11, 2017 #4 Share Posted March 11, 2017 After reading so many comments about how to dress & pack for evenings I came across this posting from a news article I read....enjoy.. http://www.newyorksocialdiary.com/party-pictures/2017/mcnys-winter-ball You have to love the Europeans ..... What does this have to do with Europeans, it's an American event Sent from my iPad using Forums Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rotterdam Posted March 11, 2017 Author #5 Share Posted March 11, 2017 What does this have to do with Europeans, it's an American event Sent from my iPad using Forums What does this have to do with Europeans, it's an American eventAfter 35+ years of having a home in New York City and attending many such events & the opera etc I've found the Europeans tend to really rise to the occasion on these formal evenings. I've been on cruises since the 1970's and truly remember what Formal meant onboard. I myself have several dinner jackets, tuxedos & many accessories that are used often & refreshed regularly - both on land & at sea. Fashion should be fun - so why not make the most of it - especially when at sea!!!:D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wripro Posted March 11, 2017 #6 Share Posted March 11, 2017 Because not everyone wants to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare Lois R Posted March 11, 2017 #7 Share Posted March 11, 2017 What does this have to do with Europeans, it's an American eventAfter 35+ years of having a home in New York City and attending many such events & the opera etc I've found the Europeans tend to really rise to the occasion on these formal evenings. I've been on cruises since the 1970's and truly remember what Formal meant onboard. I myself have several dinner jackets, tuxedos & many accessories that are used often & refreshed regularly - both on land & at sea. Fashion should be fun - so why not make the most of it - especially when at sea!!!:D Fashion can be be fun:)...but a long skirt/dress slacks and pretty top are fine for me on a cruise. Wearing a ball gown is not part of me, my lifestyle at home or at sea. Living in the Big Apple is much different than living in "most" other cities........sans Chicago, LA, etc.......regular working folks (I would be in that category) have no reason to to go to any black tie events.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare RachelG Posted March 13, 2017 #8 Share Posted March 13, 2017 Plenty of black tie optional fundraisers here in Tulsa. I go to at least 2-3 per year and enjoy dressing up for them. But I don't understand the comment about Europeans. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ernieb Posted March 13, 2017 #9 Share Posted March 13, 2017 My DW and I enjoy formal dress on our cruises, but I have come to detest wearing a tie:mad:. I will be taking a tux for formal nights and am thinking of getting a couple of ascots to wear with it. Would this work? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Randyk47 Posted March 13, 2017 #10 Share Posted March 13, 2017 My DW and I enjoy formal dress on our cruises, but I have come to detest wearing a tie:mad:. I will be taking a tux for formal nights and am thinking of getting a couple of ascots to wear with it. Would this work? While I can't say I've seen somebody with an ascot I'd think it would be just fine. In my mind an ascot is certainly tie like enough to meet the dress code and certainly better than an ill fitting tie. Personally I was a tux guy until I wore out my tux and when I went to replace it I went with a black suit. Now I take that and what I consider more formal silk ties and don't feel the least bit out of place. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
friendlyfifer Posted March 13, 2017 #11 Share Posted March 13, 2017 My DW and I enjoy formal dress on our cruises, but I have come to detest wearing a tie:mad:. I will be taking a tux for formal nights and am thinking of getting a couple of ascots to wear with it. Would this work? An Ascot would certainly be a talking point. However, traditionally it would have been worn during the day either formally or informally. It's not formal evening wear but I'm sure it will look good with your tux. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ernieb Posted March 13, 2017 #12 Share Posted March 13, 2017 Thank you both. I'm aware that an ascot is not exactly "formal evening wear", but since it often is formal wear during the day, it seems like when worn with a tux, it would be more appropriate than a suite with a tie. I also suspect it would be more comfortable to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emtbsam Posted March 13, 2017 #13 Share Posted March 13, 2017 My DW and I enjoy formal dress on our cruises, but I have come to detest wearing a tie:mad:. I will be taking a tux for formal nights and am thinking of getting a couple of ascots to wear with it. Would this work? My DH started wearing an ascot when we cruised the Amazon. Although he only wears them on informal nights because he enjoys tying his own bow tie, you should enjoy yourself and wear one with your tux. It sounds like a great idea. What color ascot? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glenwhorple Posted March 13, 2017 #14 Share Posted March 13, 2017 Or you could go full-bore often uncomfortable but pretty attractive like many of the people at this event in Calgary in Canada recently https://www.calgaryhighlandersball.com/photos . Thank you both. I'm aware that an ascot is not exactly "formal evening wear", but since it often is formal wear during the day, it seems like when worn with a tux, it would be more appropriate than a suite with a tie. I also suspect it would be more comfortable to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
57 varieties Posted March 14, 2017 #15 Share Posted March 14, 2017 ... and we from this side of the pond, would call your ascot a cravat. So long as you are wearing something round your neck, looking smart, you are fine. Sent from my iPad using Tapatalk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mdpa Posted March 14, 2017 #16 Share Posted March 14, 2017 I've got to admit...I also don't like dressing up. After wearing a suit/tie every day at work for over 20 years have considered it a necessary evil. In Washington, DC the trend has been towards less formal and now I rarely wear a tie for work. Usually just a sports coat. This trip is making me feel obligated to take my wingtips, slightly more casual shoes, walking shoes, and sneakers. With a size 12 shoe, this is one bag! I normally prefer to consolidate my wardrobe on trips (and think about it as little as possible). Maybe after a few drinks this part of the experience will seem more enjoyable. :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rocchi Posted March 14, 2017 #17 Share Posted March 14, 2017 On our last formal night dinner while waiting to be seated, a gentleman in front of us was informally dressed with no neck tie was handed a tie by the restaurant manager, but the gentleman couldn’t or did not know how to tie it, so a waiter took the gentleman to one side and tied it for him. During dinner I noticed the same gentleman seated near us had removed his jacket and was wearing what looked like a casual shirt, but he still had the tie on. Maybe some people don't read the instruction manual prior to going on a cruise. I however have never had a dinner suit. On formal night I wear a dark suit, wing collar shirt and self tie black bow tie. Many other gentlemen are dressed in business suites or a blazer and slacks and always with a tie and are smartly dressed. Which is acceptable to the instruction manual, the restaurant manager and the rest of the passengers. Just a little on afternoon tea in the Terrazza. I turned up still in swimming trunks and a throw over type shirt and the magic blue crocks and asked if it was OK to go in to tea dressed like this. This was answered by a long hesitation followed by an instruction from Mrs. R to go and change. When I returned more appropriately dressed I had to apologised to the room manager for putting him in that unfair position. On the cravat or ascot question. I don't think they would be appropriate for formal night but I would never object to them. Just a personal opinion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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