Eating breakfast apart.

[Boytjie]

DH and I switch our morning patterns on vacation: at home I can't get up but he wakes up early. On vacation (especially on a ship) I am up before sunrise and he sleeps in.

 

So on a cruise I will get up, grab my insulated mug and get coffee in the Lido for wondering the empty decks and enjoy the sunrise. I may pop back into the Lido for yogurt and/or pastry. When he wakes up we'll meet up and have breakfast in the Lido; I don't really care for sit-down service, it is often slow.

 

Depending on the party the night before (these being charters) and a sea day ahead, we may opt for ordering room service for breakfast when we go to bed and then enjoy it out on the balcony.

[NMLady]

My DH swears the oatmeal in the Lido is nicer than the MDR. I wouldn't know as I am not an oatmeal eater. Therefore he likes to have breakfast in the Lido.

 

I like to sit and eat my breakfast without being disturbed by jumping up and down to go get the next thing I plan to eat.

 

Has anyone else eaten in a different dining room to their partner? I am more than happy to sit by myself.

 

Most of our cruises have lots of sea days and on those we eat separately for breakfast and usually for lunch as well. My husband and I do not like the same activities nor the same eating schedule. We finally decided we do not have to have all our meals together, only dinner.

 

On port days though we usually eat breakfast together since we'll be exploring the port together or taking a tour together.

Edited August 23, 2015 by NMLady

[RuthC]

Unless the vows said something about "Love, honor, and have breakfast together every morning", you're allowed to eat apart. ;)

[POA1]

Unless the vows said something about "Love, honor, and have breakfast together every morning", you're allowed to eat apart. ;)

The vows were "love, honor, and order bacon" . - which was abbreviated "o bacon, ' and eventually "love, honor, and 'o-bay.'"

 

So, the wedding vows are mum on breakfast as long as porky treats are involved.

[GUT2407]

The vows were "love, honor, and order bacon" . - which was abbreviated "o bacon, ' and eventually "love, honor, and 'o-bay.'"

 

So, the wedding vows are mum on breakfast as long as porky treats are involved.

 

 

No it was obey

 

Even when I say

 

"Get me bacon woman".

 

[i wish i was brave enough]

[Ricktan]

No it was obey

 

Even when I say

 

"Get me bacon woman".

 

[i wish i was brave enough]

 

Yeah, I'd love to see how that works for you! :D

[Ricktan]

What time do the different venues open for breakfast? Lido, MDR, Pinnacle grill? Can you get room service early ? Due to the nature of our business we are both VERY early risers. 5:30 am is sleeping in. But, I'm sure we will readjust our schedule somewhat since I'm sure we will enjoy later evenings in the casino. But, I still don't see my DH ever sleeping past 6.

[syesmar]

There's been a few times where I wanted breakfast in the MDR, while DH was doing other things. I request a table by myself, but once I told the steward he might be joining me if he got done in time . . . big mistake. They didn't come back to take my order as they waited, not understanding it was only a possibility, not the plan. About 20 minutes later, I had to find someone to take my order. It's funny now, but just wanted to warn you not to voice the possibility that you might be joined later if you want to eat soon:). Other than that, service is normally quite quick and efficient. The mornings I've gone have been quiet and peaceful! Now I want some corned beef hash!:)

 

Happy Travels!

[cruz chic]

What time do the different venues open for breakfast? Lido, MDR, Pinnacle grill? Can you get room service early ? Due to the nature of our business we are both VERY early risers. 5:30 am is sleeping in. But, I'm sure we will readjust our schedule somewhat since I'm sure we will enjoy later evenings in the casino. But, I still don't see my DH ever sleeping past 6.

 

Generally speaking the MDR is either open from either 7:30 to 9 or 8:00 to 9:30. The pinnacle will be the same. Check the daily program. I'm not a lido fan so I'm sure someone will comment on that part.

[OlsSalt]

What time do the different venues open for breakfast? Lido, MDR, Pinnacle grill? Can you get room service early ? Due to the nature of our business we are both VERY early risers. 5:30 am is sleeping in. But, I'm sure we will readjust our schedule somewhat since I'm sure we will enjoy later evenings in the casino. But, I still don't see my DH ever sleeping past 6.

 

Room service is 24hour - but with a more limited menu I believe after 11pm until early morning. Coffee/tea/cocoa available 24/7. If you have an in-room fridge you can put buffet items from the day before in your cabin - like yogurt, fruit, etc. Then take some of the cereal boxes if you are okay with an early cold breakfasts before they open the other venues for hot choices.

 

There is the late evening (10:30pm-11pm?) buffet at the Lido so you can get something hot to eat before you retire, if you expect late hours in the casino. Then you might not wake up hungry, if you rise extra early in the next morning.

[GUT2407]

Yeah, I'd love to see how that works for you! :D

 

Let's just say I am a big boy, a former Rugby Frint Row forward and everyone knows

 

"Not scared of man nor beast, except for her!"

 

So how do you think it'll turn out?

 

Probably with me all bruised and bloody.

[PatsyAnne]

The vows were "love, honor, and order bacon" . - which was abbreviated "o bacon, ' and eventually "love, honor, and 'o-bay.'"

 

So, the wedding vows are mum on breakfast as long as porky treats are involved.

 

 

I have to tell you, you're one of the main reasons I read this board. Thanks for the humor!

[pv girl]

Room service breakfast starts at 0600 and has both hot and cold options. If you check the time box 0600-0630, trust me, most days it will be at your door at 0605 at the latest.

[SetAnOpenCourse]

Several morning on a cruise I tend to wake up earlier than DW and hit the Lido for a hot drink and a bite. Nice chance, especially since it's early, to be alone with a book and my thoughts. Then I go back to get her and go for the real breakfast together.

 

 

Edited August 24, 2015 by SetAnOpenCourse

[chill6x6]

My DH swears the oatmeal in the Lido is nicer than the MDR. I wouldn't know as I am not an oatmeal eater. Therefore he likes to have breakfast in the Lido.

 

I like to sit and eat my breakfast without being disturbed by jumping up and down to go get the next thing I plan to eat.

 

Has anyone else eaten in a different dining room to their partner? I am more than happy to sit by myself.

 

Sorry, but over OATMEAL?

[Lizzie68]

Sorry, but over OATMEAL?

 

Huh?? What over oatmeal?

[Sirdar]

I took DW for better or for worse but not for Breakfast. I wouldn't worry about being separated for too long on a cruise. Just agree to meet up later on.

[donaldsc]

My DH swears the oatmeal in the Lido is nicer than the MDR. I wouldn't know as I am not an oatmeal eater. Therefore he likes to have breakfast in the Lido.

 

I like to sit and eat my breakfast without being disturbed by jumping up and down to go get the next thing I plan to eat.

 

Has anyone else eaten in a different dining room to their partner? I am more than happy to sit by myself.

 

We do trips separately on occasion. Eating breakfast separately is no big deal.

 

DON

[Tampa Girl]

Sorry, but over OATMEAL?

 

Well. . . oatmeal was a big enough issue for the DH to demand eating in the Lido every morning! Surely you are not suggesting that the little wife accede every morning to such a demand. Or are you? Perhaps you didn't mean it that way, but it certainly sounded somewhat chauvinistic.

[Khaos WolfKat]

Sorry, but over OATMEAL?

 

You seem to be implying that there is some serious falling out over choice of breakfast foods. Of course, I could be mistaken. Your post isn't terribly enlightening. Either way, I don't see a big deal at all here. The OP had a simple question.

 

Well. . . oatmeal was a big enough issue for the DH to demand eating in the Lido every morning! Surely you are not suggesting that the little wife accede every morning to such a demand. Or are you? Perhaps you didn't mean it that way, but it certainly sounded somewhat chauvinistic.

 

I think you are also overreacting. Nowhere was it implied that anyone was "demanding" anything. The OP clearly stated that she likes to breakfast in the MDR and he likes to breakfast in the Lido, for the oatmeal there. I'm just not seeing any big issue here. All I see is two individuals with differing preferences, and one of them looking for some clarification about general expectations of couples/cabin mates on board.

 

 

As for the OP, I'll chime in too.

There is no reason at all the two of you must do everything together. You should both do what makes you happy, both as individuals and as a couple, and enjoy your vacation! It is doubtful anyone would be rude enough to question your decisions, but if they did, my suggestion would be to sweetly inquire of them whether they would care to accompany you back to your cabin to oversee your marital sleeping arrangements as well.

Edited August 25, 2015 by Khaos WolfKat

[chill6x6]

Well. . . oatmeal was a big enough issue for the DH to demand eating in the Lido every morning! Surely you are not suggesting that the little wife accede every morning to such a demand. Or are you? Perhaps you didn't mean it that way, but it certainly sounded somewhat chauvinistic.

 

Not really sure how you came up with that?? We would just handle it another way….either bringing the oatmeal to MDR from Lido OR splitting time between the two…today lido and tomorrow MDR….FIND a way to eat together. Bad idea?

[dakrewser]

Yes it is a bad idea. DW and I rarely eat breakfast together - by choice. Why are you trying to force us to do that???

[scamper]

Let's not let the thread get heated. I was enjoying how people spend a little of their time on a cruise.

 

Anyway, although I am single, the person I travel with, family or friend, I/we either head to the Neptune and bring stuff back to munch on, or have room service. If we eat lightly (no, seriously...I can!) then I/we might hit the Lido late so there's better seating. On port days, I go to the Pinnacle or Dining Room depending on how social I'm feeling. If I go to the dining room, I sit at a big table. If I go to Pinnacle, I sit alone. The person I'm with does what they want.

Edited August 26, 2015 by scamper

[Tampa Girl]

Not really sure how you came up with that?? We would just handle it another way….either bringing the oatmeal to MDR from Lido OR splitting time between the two…today lido and tomorrow MDR….FIND a way to eat together. Bad idea?

 

Sorry, it sounded like you were suggesting OP should make the sacrifice. Your idea is better. Or would be if they really want to eat together. I've never been a fan of "togetherness" is 24-7.

[Khaos WolfKat]

I won't be eating any meals or going anywhere on or off ship without my darling cabin mate. I can't stand for us to be separated for more than a few moments when I'm awake, and I want to know we are close even when I sleep, just waiting for our union on waking.

 

I can't imagine a meal, most especially breakfast, without my beloved.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I am referring, of course, to my coffee. ;)